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Abbreviations or acronyms are used to shortcut the description of different sex work services. There are many variations, but the following are some common ones:
69: Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and mutually perform oral sex on each other.
A-level: Anal sex (also known as greek)
ATM: Ass to mouth, anal sex immediately followed by oral
AR: Anal rimming refers to licking of the the anal area
BBS: Bare back sex, vaginal or anal sex without a condom
BBBJ: Bare back blow job, oral sex without a condom
BBBJTC: Bare back blow job to completion
BBW: Big beautiful woman, refers to women who are voluptuous or curvaceous
B & D: Bondage and discipline
BDSM: Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism, describes a wide range of activities – always get more information
Bondage: Refers to activities involving tying up or restraining of one partner
BJ: Blow job, oral sex on a penis; fellatio
BJTC: Blow job to completion, giving oral sex until the client cums; with or without a condom
BLS: Ball licking and sucking
BS: Body slide. A service provider slides their naked body over the client’s, often with the aid of oil or gel
CBJ: Covered blow job refers to oral sex with a condom
CBT: Cock and ball torture, a BDSM sexual activity that involves torture or inflicting pain on genitals
CD: Cross dressing, may involve client or service provider dressing as a different gender during a booking, could also include service provider “teaching” client how to play a particular gender role
CIM: Cum in mouth, refers to cumming in a service provider’s mouth without a condom
CIMWS: Cum in mouth with swallowing
COF / COB: Cum on face/cum on breasts/cum on body; pulling the penis out of someone’s mouth/vagina/arse and cumming over chest, face, back, etc
DATY: Dining at the ‘Y’, oral sex on a vulva (the outer part of the vagina); cunnilingus
DATO: See ‘rimming’
DP: Double penetration, either penetrating two orifices at once which may include two people, or penetration of one orifice with two things. These acts could include the mouth, vagina and/or anus
DDP: Double digit penetration, one finger in vagina, the other in anus
DFK: Deep french kissing, passionate kissing with tongues
DT: Deep throat, taking the entire length of a penis in one’s mouth during oral sex
Facial: Ejaculating on a face
FE: Female ejaculation, also known as squirting or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.
Filming: Filming or recording of a sexual act
Fire and ice: Refers to applying hot and cold sensations, either directly to the genitals or via the mouth during oral sex. For example, switching between hot and cold sensations such as hot tea and an ice cube. This can be part of a CBT experience.
Fisting: Penetration of a whole hand inside the vagina or anus
FK: French kissing
Foot fetish: A sexual desire and gratification focused on feet or shoes, may involve a foot job or kissing and licking of toes
Foot job: Similar to a hand job but performed with feet, usually with oil or lube stroking a penis between the arches of two feet either as foreplay or until completion
French: Oral sex
FS: Full service, usually just means ‘intercourse’, but some clients or establishments might be referring to a ‘complete’ service, including massage, oral and sex
Gagging: Gagging or choking on an erect penis or sometimes fingers
GFE: Girlfriend experience,acting like a girlfriend; sensual, friendly, cuddly. May include services such as sex, french kissing, mutual oral sex. Inclusions of the service may vary between providers.
Greek: Anal sex
GS: Golden shower, urinating on body or in mouth
Happy ending: Hand job after massage
HJ: Hand Job, hand relief; using your hand to masturbate the client
Italian: Rubbing penis between buttocks
LK: Light kissing
MILF: Mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive woman, usually several years older than the person using the term
MFF: Male Female Female, threesome involving one male and two females
MMF: Male Male Female, threesome involving two males and one female
Mutual French: Both parties give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time is called ‘69’
Mutual Natural French: Both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex
MSOG: Multiple shots on goal refers to a client orgasming multiple times within a booking
NSA: No strings attached, no serious relationships, just a hook-up
OWO: Oral with out, a blow job without a condom
Pegging: Using a strap on dildo to have anal sex with a partner
PSE: Porn star experience, a sexual encounter that is similar to what you would see in a mainstream pornographic film. Usually involves a range of sexual positions, louder moaning, dirty talk, deep throating/gagging and light spanking. The inclusions of a PSE vary between service providers.
R&T: Rub and tug, massage with hand relief
Rimming: Licking around the the anus
Russian: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Spanish)
Snowballing: The act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another
Spanish: Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Russian)
Squirting: Also known as female ejaculation or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the urethra.
Strap on: A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner
Strip tease: An erotic dance where the service provider undresses for the client in a teasing fashion
Tea bagging: Placing balls in the mouth or on the face of a partner
Toy show: A masturbation show using sex toys including vibrators
Tromboning: An act where the service provider kneels behind the client and licks their anus while masturbating their erect penis
TTM: Testicular tongue massage
Water sports: See golden shower, but also can involve many sexual activities that involve urine
Don’t assume that you and the client have the same understanding of abbreviations. It’s a good idea to confirm the details, eg. ‘Did you want AR on me, or on you?’, or ‘I do offer oral to completion, but only with a condom’, before agreeing to the service.
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