Abbreviations or acronyms are used to shortcut the description of different sex work services. There are many variations, but the following are some common ones:
69 – Sex position in which the sexual partners lay head to toe and mutually perform oral sex on each other.
ATM – Ass to Mouth (anal sex immediately followed by oral).
AR – Anal Rimming (licking of the the anal area)
BBS – BareBack Sex (vaginal or anal sex without a condom)
BBBJ – BareBack Blow Job (blow job without a condom)
BDSM – Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism (Describes a wide range of activities – always get more information).
BLS – Balls Licking and Sucking
BJ – Blow Job (oral on a penis; fellatio)
BJTC – Blow Job To Completion (giving oral until the client cums; with or without a condom)
BS – Body Slide
CBT – Cock and Ball Torture
CBJ – Covered Blow Job (blow job with a condom)
CD – Cross Dressing
CIM – Cum In Mouth (cumming in your mouth, without a condom)
CIMWS – Cum In Mouth With Swallowing
COF/COB – Cum On Face/Cum On Breasts/Cum on Body (pulling the penis out of your mouth/vagina/arse and cumming over your breasts, face, back, etc).
DATY – Dining At The ‘Y’ (oral sex on a vagina; cunnilingus)
DP – Double Penetration (either penetrating two orifices at once, or penetration of one orifice with two things)
DDP – Double Digit Penetration
DFK – Deep French Kissing (passionate kissing with tongues)
DT – Deep Throat
FE- Female Ejaculation (squirting)
FK – French Kissing
FS – Full Service (usually just means ‘intercourse’, but might mean a ‘complete’ service, including massage, oral and sex)
GFE – Girl Friend Experience (acting like a girlfriend; sensual, friendly, cuddly)
GS – Golden Shower (urinating on body)
HJ – Hand Job (hand relief; using your hand to masturbate the client)
LK – Light Kissing
NSA – No Strings Attached (no serious relationships, just a hook-up)
OWO – Oral With Out (blow job without a condom)
PSE – Porn Star Experience (acting like a porn star; active, sexy, outrageous)
R&T – Rub and Tug (massage with hand relief)
MSOG – Multiple Shots On Goal – (multiple organisms/have sex multiple times)
MFF – Male Female Female (threesome involving one male and two females)
MMF – Male Male Female (threesome involving two males and one female)
Don’t assume that you and the client have the same understanding of abbreviations. It’s a good idea to confirm the details, eg. ‘Did you want AR on me, or on you?’, or ‘I do offer oral to completion, but only with a condom’, before agreeing to the service.